Friday 18 December 2015

Heights by Aashna Parekh

Heights
Have you ever wondered what it’s like to be fearless? Fearlessness is an image that doesn’t process in your head. Becoming fearless isn’t the point, that’s impossible. It’s about learning how to control your fears and how to be free from it.
My biggest fear is my fear of heights. Height is something I’ve been scared of all my life. I feel like it’s something that I can’t overcome. I’ve sacrificed many things in life because of that one fear.

When doing something that involves overcoming your fear, you have to go through it not around it. I don’t know what it is about heights that scare me. Is it about me falling? What if I make it without falling? There will be that pride that satisfaction that I just killed my fear but the next thing I know, it’s alive again and it’s haunting me all over again.

   You know when you shake a can of coke and then you open it and it explodes everywhere?Well that’s how I feel when facing my fear of heights. Heights cause me dizziness and discomfort.
The fear of heights is called Acrophobia. It causes something known as Vertigo which is the sensation of spinning. Acrophobia can range from fear when one the top floor of a tall building or even standing on a chair. People with acrophobia feel a sense of panic when they’re at a certain height and often become unable to trust their sense of balance.
Sometimes you need to face your fears to realize that they aren’t actually real.

Another reason why I don’t like heights is because it’s made me sacrifice a few things like trips, Bungee jumping, roller coasters and many more activities that involve heights.
 If your fear is making you feel tense in your head, sick in your stomach and tight in your chest, you have to picture it as an actual shape and give it a color. Tell yourself it’s okay to feel anxious and just allow it to be and it will start to fade away.
The fears we don’t face become our limits.

Heights also make me feel insecure about myself. It makes me feel below everyone who isn’t afraid of heights. Fear is nothing more than an obstacle that stands in the way of progress. In overcoming our fears we can move forward stronger and wiser within ourselves feeling like there’s nothing you can’t do, feeling like no one can stop you.
As I say this I’m realizing maybe the existence of our fears makes us all better, stronger people in a way. Fear doesn’t shut you down is wakes you up. In conclusion I realized that, Fear is not real. It is the product of thoughts you create. Although danger is real, fear is a choice.


 Aashna Parekh

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